
Some people are just more prone to negative thinking, while others set impossibly high standards for themselves. Stress and difficult life events, such as serious illness or a bereavement, can have a negative effect on self-esteem. Perhaps you found it difficult to live up to other people's expectations of you, or to your own expectations. Our teachers, friends, siblings, parents, and even the media send us positive and negative messages about ourselves.įor some reason, the message that you are not good enough is the one that stays with you. Low self-esteem often begins in childhood.

We also feel less able to take on the challenges that life throws at us. When our self-esteem is low, we tend to see ourselves and our life in a more negative and critical light. It makes us better able to deal with life's ups and downs. When we have healthy self-esteem, we tend to feel positive about ourselves and about life in general. Self-esteem is the opinion we have of ourselves. We all have times when we lack confidence and do not feel good about ourselves.īut when low self-esteem becomes a long-term problem, it can have a harmful effect on our mental health and our day-to-day lives.
